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SWM 137 – Why we don’t spank our children
SWM 137 - Why we don't spank our children. Check out the blog post here for more details and links.
Last week, Gary Thomas posted an article on his substack on the topic of discipline vs. punishment—not taking a stance but rather offering it up as a controversial conversation starter. Reading it made me curious about something—does your view of hell change your parenting approach? After all, if God is our example, and you believe that hell is eternal punishment, does that then lend to a more heavy-handed approach to parenting versus someone who believes that hell is an act of mercy?
I posted that question in our forum, and it then led to a discussion on using physical punishment on children. I spent a fair bit of time in the last week or two writing on that thread, and so I thought I’d repurpose it here for those who might be curious about how we raised our children.
We, Christina and I, don’t believe hell is eternal torture. We don’t believe such a view is in keeping with the Bible. We grew up in a denomination that taught it was, and it was one of the reasons we left because the doctrine couldn’t stand up to either biblical scrutiny or logic as we saw it. If you want to know why and/or argue that stance, I fully welcome you to read the post What happens when you die? That’s not the point of this post.
The point of this post is to share why we don’t spank our children, and now that my children are growing up into adults, what the outcome of such a choice has been.
Links mentioned in this episode:
- Gary Thomas' article - Discipline vs Punishment (Substack)
- What happens when you die? (Post)
- Spanking and Child Development: We Know Enough Now To Stop Hitting Our Children (Study)
- Spanking and Child Outcomes: Old Controversies and New Meta-Analyses (Study)
- The Research on Spanking and Its Implications for Intervention (PDF)
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