Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

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SWM 151 – AQ – Oral Sex Norms, Fantasy Guilt & Rekindling Passion
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: - Do men enjoy cunnilingus after ejaculation? - Should I feel bad for refusing oral after anal? - My spouse says I should accept substitutes for sex - Fe
SWM 150 – Control, sex and marriage
Last month, I watched a great video by Gary Thomas and his wife Lisa on how a controlling spirit can harm a marriage. It got me thinking: In Christian circles, we often struggle to define the differen
SWM 149 – My daughter’s speech – Transgenderism is a lie
Today we're going to do something a little bit different. For those who have been listening for more than a year, you know that my kids are in 4H and every year they have to deliver a speech. For the
SWM 148 – 14 red flags your marriage is drifting towards divorce, affairs or lifelong unhappiness
Have you noticed how quickly disagreements turn into demonization these days? Whether its politics, religion, or even marriage, weve gotten stuck in a cycle of contemptwhere the other side isnt
SWM 147 – How do you know if you’re sexually compatible
The most common argument I hear for premarital sex is, "You need to know if you're sexually compatible before getting married. Otherwise, you might end up stuck in a sexless, unfulfilling relationship
SWM 146 – Legalistic vs Loving Approach to Marriage – Shifting from Rules to Relationship
In my work as a marriage coach, I often see couples transition from one type of marriage to another. Theres no clear line between these states, no set of rules that definitively places someone in one
SWM 145 – AQ – Handjobs, sex on a full stomach, routines, sex tapes and more
Topics include: Talking about a lack of sex Not drive due to cancer treatments Wife doesn't want to use lube Our sex life is routine Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation Do husbands like
SWM 144 – Why wives have a complicated relationship with sex and what to do about it
One of our supporters posted a question in our forum which led to a bit of a discussion on what men perceive as sexy, and it shook the questioner a bit, because it was radically different from what sh
SWM 143 – Redefining sex – How to have a thriving sex life despite sexual dysfunction
I feel like I have some explaining to do. A couple of weeks ago, I shared that lately, Christina and I have started having sex a lot more than usual. We had more sexual encounters last month than th
SWM 142 – AQ – September 2024 – Exhibitionism, no sex in 4 months, rough sex and more
Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm