Sex With Dr. Jess

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Pleasure, Spanking & Masculinity with King Noire
Curious about kink, spanking, ethical porn and how to have better sex? - The inimitable King Noire shares his perspective of pleasure, pansexuality, performance and much more in this candid conversati
A Guide to Compassionate Communication
How do you cultivate deeper connections through communication? How can you summon compassion in the heat of conflict? How do you define non-violent communication? What is polyvagal theory? -
3 Sex & Relationship Lessons From “Lifestyle” Couples
Couples inThe Lifestyle(AKASwingers) practice a form of ethical non-monogamy that usually involves sex play with other singles and/or couples. - In this quickie episode, Jess and Brandon discuss ad
Top Relationship Tips From Happier Couples: 8 Secrets To Success
Happy couples from across the globe share their best advice for richer relationships. From the relational to the emotional to the sexual, the happiest couples - of all ages weigh in on what makes thei
Financial Infidelity & How To Talk About Money
Has your partner lied to you about their finances? Have you ever hid spending (or debt) from a partner? Do you and your partner disagree about money - saving, spending, sharing, etc? Do you stru
Sex Q&A, Alvinophilia & Sex vs. Social Media
Would you rather give up sex or social media? The results from a new Canadian study may surprise you! - Jess and Brandon explore new research findings and answer a listener question about bellybutton
Jess & Brandon’s Latest Argument. And A 7-Minute Solution
Looking for a quick exercise to offset the potentially harmful effects of conflict? - Jess & Brandon explore a 7-minute solution to support "cognitive reappraisal" as they share the details of their l
12 Strategies To Deal With Rejection
Do you struggle with rejection? How does your response vary from the boardroom to the bedroom? Do layers of your identity affect how you deal with rejection? - We surveyed our community regarding
How to Manage Rejection Part 1
Rejection is a life skill. This week, Jess and Brandon revisit a previous conversation about how to deal with someone who pulls away without explanation. They share their own experiences, and weigh in
Attraction & Body Image: Communication for Couples
A pregnant listener wants to know how to deal with hurt feelings; after her partner; interrupted a conversation to check out another woman. Jess and Brandon share their thoughts on how to deal with se