Sex With Dr. Jess

Latest Episodes
How to Get in the Mood for Sex
In this quickie episode, we chat about the fact that our interest in sex has declined since the onset of social isolation. We discuss strategies for creating “responsive” sexual desire and managing distractions that detract from pleasure.
Top Tips for Digital Dating
Dating coach and matchmaker, Carmelia Ray joins Jess and Brandon to discuss: What holds most people back from finding a great match How dating has changed since we’ve been instructed to shelter in place Virtual speed dating
Do You Get a Say in Your Partner’s Porn Habits?
Since we’re trapped at home in isolation, we decided to record an extra episode this week. We talk about a fight we had yesterday and how stress levels are affecting the way we interact. We also spend some time discussing an unrelated user question: “D...
How We Manage Our Relationship in Isolation
We’ve been isolating at home in Toronto for 19 days now and we thought we’d share how we’re doing as a couple — what’s working and what isn’t. We talk about some of the conflicting feelings we’re experiencing and brainstorm ways to make sure we’re stil...
Getting Naked With Tova Leigh: Monogamy, Motherhood & More
Tova Leigh joins Jess to share her journey as a mother, woman and author of F*cked at 40. They discuss: How she got over her body image issues after birth How to care less about what other people think
Your Quaran-Team: How to Manage the Stress of COVID-19
Therapist and writer, Jake Ernst, joins Jess and Brandon to discuss: Strategies for assembling your support team (AKA quaran-team) during this stressful time Apps that can help you to manage stress, transition and isolation
What We Can Learn from Equine Horse Therapy
How can equine therapy with horses help couples improve communication? How can horses support survivors of trauma? What is vaginismus and what are some approaches to managing painful sex? Dr. Maha Nasrallah-Babenko joins Jess to answer these questions ...
Core Erotic Feeling, Gang-Bangs & Spankings
Award winning sex educator, Tristan Taormino, joins Jess to talk about spanking, gang bangs, eye candy, social justice and mind-f*cking. - Why you might want to attend Sex Down South this year... How to reclaim the gang bang
Why We Love Dirty Underwear!
On this week's podcast, panty-peddler, Lacey Bloom, joins Jess to talk about her experience selling used underwear online. What makes it so exciting and how can used underwear help to destigmatize sexual taboos? They also chat about wild requests,
How to Help Someone in an Abusive Relationship
The toll of intimate partner violence struck close to home this week and with this weighing on her mind, Jess discusses nine strategies for supporting a loved one who is dealing with an abusive partner. This isn’t a private issue,