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How to Be A Lazy Genius with Kendra Adachi, and Self-Care for Essential Workers | Selfie Podcast Episode 144
Kendra Adachi of The Lazy Genius Collective is helping us learn to opt out of things that drain our energy, figure out how to work smarter not harder, and find the decisions we can make today to make life easier tomorrow.
Slaying the Validation-Seeking with Tiffany Reese, and The Myth of Love Languages | Selfie Podcast Episode 143
Author Tiffany Reese and I talk about the ongoing journey of letting go of the need for validation from others, how we've worked to let go of perfectionism, and how we are trying to teach these concepts to our kids.
Moving from Addiction to Wellness + Why We Numb Our Pain, and How To Stop It | Selfie Podcast Episode 142
Arielle Lorre from The Blonde Files is sharing her journey from addiction to wellness. BJ Hickman talks about why we resort to numbing our pain, and how to stop it. - In this episode we also talked about: -
Kids and Stress with Lisa Damour + Self-Love and Worthiness with BJ Hickman | Selfie Podcast Episode 141
I'm talking with fellow therapist Lisa Damour about raising preteens and teens, how to promote empathy and self-esteem while also promoting resilience, and what the pandemic is doing to an already stressed-out generation.
Let’s Talk About Sex + Dealing with Narcissists | Selfie Ep. 140
Today we are talking about all things sex with Dr. Emily Jamea of Revive Therapy, an LMFT with a PhD in sexology We will be touching on libido, what to do when partners have different sexual appetites, the brain/sex connection, and more.
Let’s Talk About Sex + Dealing with Narcissists | Selfie Ep. 140
Today we are talking about all things sex with Dr. Emily Jamea of Revive Therapy, an LMFT with a PhD in sexology We will be touching on libido, what to do when partners have different sexual appetites, the brain/sex connection, and more.
Making sense of Loss with Kate Bowler + Unfollowing as Self Care | Selfie Episode 139
8/13/2020 - We are talking with Kate Bowler, author of Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I've Loved, about the human impulse to put a bow on suffering, and how it can be harmful to try to make meaning of loss as a way to circumvent grie...
Launching Teenagers with Jenny Ingram + How To Deal with the World’s Collective Anger | Selfie Episode 138
We are talking with Jenny Ingram about parenting teens how to launch our kids into the world. BJ is going to be giving us advice on what to do when all of the anger in the world right now is making us angry.
Homeschooling with Issa Mas + Why Is Uncertainty So Hard? | Selfie Podcast Episode 137
Issa Mas is helping us unpack homeschooling and the different ways of doing it, for anyone making difficult decisions about school in the fall. BJ talks about why uncertainty is so difficult to deal with, and how to stay sane in the midst of ambiguity....
Minimalist Parenting with Christine Koh | Selfie Episode 136
Christine Koh is giving us advice on how to parent smarter, not harder. Parenting is often easier when we simplify, and that there are benefits to our kids when we let ourselves off the hook, too. Christine is the co-author of the book Minimalist Paren...