Today Matthias and Kristen talk about sexual and gender identity development in teens. How do we leave room for growth without locking kids into an identity? And, why is Tik Tok so addicting?
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Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)

The Way Out by Alan Gordon and Alon Ziv

The Brain's Way of Healing by Norman Doidge

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk

Shameless Parenting by Tina Schermer Sellers

George by Alex Gino

Raising Them by Kyl Myers

Red: A Crayon's Story by Michael Hall

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