Connection is the lifeblood of marriage.  In fact, we are wired for deep connection.  And while the connection works best within the marriage relationship, it is not singular. Many couples find connection in only one or two areas,

I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way.  So, you set out to “get” your spouse to agree with you. …And you have now begun walking down a very dangerous path. (I bet you didn’t think so, did you?) Almost always,

Sometimes, in the midst of trying to save your marriage, you can get lost.  You can forget why you are doing this.  Your spouse’s negativity, the negativity of others, may drown out your “why.” Don’t let it.  This is important work.  Not easy.

Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled?  Maybe we should take a look at your plan. You do have a plan, don’t you? Let’s talk about 5 reasons your plan (or lack of plan) may be the trouble — and what we can do to make a switch.

There is a trap waiting. It springs on you, sometimes even before you get started with saving your marriage. That same trap is waiting for you at every point of the process. You can easily get stuck in it. What’s the trap?

Boundaries may be a new concept for you.  Or you may already be working on setting boundaries for you and your marriage (I discuss it at length in my Save The Marriage System). I believe that boundaries are foundational to having a thriving life.

Here we are, right at Thanksgiving Day in the United States.  The day we are supposed to be filled with gratitude, feeling thankful for those around us. Which may feel like a tall order if your marriage is in the middle of a crisis (or if you are in an...

Is communication an issue between you and your spouse?  Do you find loving and effective communication lacking from your relationship? In this week’s free audio podcast training, we discuss 5 roadblocks to loving and effective communication.

Fear.  It comes so easily.  In fact, pretty much automatically. Love.  Ahh.  A much better place for a relationship. Reactivity, fear.  Responsiveness, love.  Where do you find yourself? In this week’s free podcast audio training,

How did it happen?  Your marriage, how did it get into trouble?  Probably not overnight.  Sure, you can point to a crisis — a fight, an “I’m not happy” talk, an affair discovered, divorce papers served.  But that crisis didn’t just pop up.