I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way.  So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you. ...And you have now begun walking down a very dangerous path. (I bet you didn't think so, did you?) Almost always, trying to get your spouse to agree will backfire -- and even make things worse.  Sometimes, much worse. Can I share with you why this can be so dangerous and how to avoid this problem?  This is something you want to fully understand. (If you want a better way, GRAB THIS and get started.) RELATED RESOURCES: Break Your Agreements! You See Things Differently Dealing with Disrespect Save The Marriage System The Lone Ranger Toolkit