A listener had a question... and it isn't the first time I've heard it. How DO you save your marriage when you feel hate for your spouse? That does seem impossible to get beyond, doesn't it? - I hav

Are you an AI user? Do you find yourself chatting with AI about things in your life? - How about regarding your marriage?? - If you are using AI as a resource to save your marriage, I have one sugges

Do you ever start on some new habit you heard about, maybe about the best diet or exercise, only to find that it isnt true later on? And have you ever discovered it was actually even worse for you?

Question: does an affair cause marital problems or do marital problems cause affairs? - Answer: YES. - Longer answer: for the majority of affairs, weak points in the marriage create a vulnerability

Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing over this? It doesn't matter"? - I ask, because I

What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you some but is still distant? More distant than you would like? - Do you have to just accept it, accept the lack of intimacy and connection?

I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, but what a difference in destination. - One leads a

I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way. So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you. - ...And you have now begun walking down a very dangerous path. - (I bet you d

Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relationship, it is not singular. - Many couples find conn

How hard is it to save my marriage? the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. The problem was I had no details about her marita