Question: does an affair cause marital problems or do marital problems cause affairs? - Answer: YES. - Longer answer: for the majority of affairs, weak points in the marriage create a vulnerability

Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing over this? It doesn't matter"? - I ask, because I

What do you do when your spouse has shifted back toward you some but is still distant? More distant than you would like? - Do you have to just accept it, accept the lack of intimacy and connection?

I often watch people move toward one of two possibilities when a marriage is in trouble: Getting Better or Getting Bitter. One letter difference, but what a difference in destination. - One leads a

I know. You want to convince your spouse to see things your way. So, you set out to "get" your spouse to agree with you. - ...And you have now begun walking down a very dangerous path. - (I bet you d

Connection is the lifeblood of marriage. In fact, we are wired for deep connection. And while the connection works best within the marriage relationship, it is not singular. - Many couples find conn

How hard is it to save my marriage? the email started. The writer wanted my opinion on whether my System would work. There was a problem, though. The problem was I had no details about her marita

Can you save your marriage?? - That is, to be honest, probably the biggest "speed bump" for someone who wants to save their marriage. - They wonder if it is even possible to save their marriage. And

Your spouse thinks its hopeless. You may even be wondering that, too. But is it? Is it hopeless? - Or is the problem that your spouse is hopeless not the situation? - Lets be honest: if you gi

Are your efforts to save your marriage getting stalled? Maybe we should take a look at your plan. - You do have a plan, don't you? - Let's talk about 5 reasons your plan (or lack of plan) may be the