Every marriage crisis starts as a crisis of an individual. As it expands into the marriage, the question is whether you, the spouse, will get pulled under by the crisis. - Have you ever tried to save

What makes a marriage work? - What makes a marriage GREAT? - Maybe you are trying to save your marriage, and aren't sure if that even matters. Maybe you are trying to aim your marriage in a better di

The email said, I talked my spouse into going to therapy. Another one asked, How do I drag my spouse to therapy? Oof. The first person was proud of the convincing. The second person got my respo

Nothing gets your focus and attention like a crisis. But sometimes, that Crisis Clarity isn't so helpful. - Let's backtrack just a minute. What is Crisis Clarity? - Just for a moment, let's assume t

I cant count how many times a couple has come to me for help with our communication skills. Funny thing is, they communicate just fine. - Then why are they stuck in conflict? Why are they disconn

At the beginning of a coaching session, my clients often tell me what they have been focused on in their marriage crisis. Almost always, they are focusing on the wrong things. - And in the process, t

The email was pages long, all about the problems in her marriage. Each line was about how her husband had ruined the marriage. She pointed out actions of her husband, and he did make mistakes (no ab

Have you done an online search for info on how to save your marriage? Were you overwhelmed with the results?? And the crazy amount of different approaches?? - How do you sort through them? How do yo

Does your brain help or hinder your efforts to save your marriage? - If you are like most people, your brain is actually a barrier in your efforts. It keeps you stuck in old, unhelpful patterns. And

Do you feel like you are stuck in limbo? That crazy spot where you cant move forward, but arent ending things? Is it a spouse who has you stuck there? - Well, that was the situation for J. He w