It happens. In the middle of a marriage crisis, you can find yourself surrounded by negativity. A spouse negative about the marriage. Friends and family negative about your efforts to save your marriage. You negative, well, about everything you are do

When did it happen? When did your marriages trajectory head in the wrong direction?Probably long before you thought, long before you could see it. Almost always, it is a conscious and unconscious collusion between the spouses. And it makes sense. L

You want to save a marriage... but you may not be sure whatto do. And I guess it is also a question of whatnot to do.BOTH what TO do and what NOT TO do, are important. So, let's cover it! In this episode, I cover 5 to-do's and to-don'ts. And in th

What gets in the way of you getting traction in your efforts to save your marriage?These days, there is one very substantial reason... one thing that keeps you (and many others) from making progress. And it is only accelerating. What is it?Distracti

Is your marriage infected by the "zombie virus?" Do you find your relationship to be the "walking dead?" Are emotions lost and connections missing? Do you and your spouse respond to each other with "zombie grunts?"The infection can be stopped. You c

A listener had a question... and it isn't the first time I've heard it. How DO you save your marriage when you feel hate for your spouse? That does seem impossible to get beyond, doesn't it?I have some news for you: many people (if not MOST) who are

Are you an AI user? Do you find yourself chatting with AI about things in your life?How about regarding your marriage??If you are using AI as a resource to save your marriage, I have one suggestion: STOP!Over the past few years (as AI chats have b

Do you ever start on some new habit you heard about, maybe about the best diet or exercise, only to find that it isnt true later on? And have you ever discovered it was actually even worse for you? (Just think about margarine or low fat diets, or even

Question: does an affair cause marital problems or do marital problems cause affairs?Answer: YES.Longer answer: for the majority of affairs, weak points in the marriage create a vulnerability to infidelity. There is another necessary element... bu

Have you found yourself in the middle of an argument, toe-to-toe with your spouse, with that little part of your brain saying, "why am I even arguing over this? It doesn't matter"?I ask, because I have had that experience MANY times in my life, both wi