Resetting in 2026New year. Same marriage problems?Here's the thing: most people approach a new year with good intentions but no actual reset. They keep doing the same things, waiting for different results. And when it comes to saving your marriage, tha

You started working on saving your marriage. Good for you!And then, you hit a bump. You get knocked down. Maybe you discovered an affair, physical or emotional. Maybe your spouse is irritable and upset. Maybe it is anger and resentment, yours or yo

Do you settle down with a good book you have read over and over this time of year? I read my kids the exact same Christmas book every single year. And many years, I re-read a classic for myself like A Christmas Carol. This year, I offer you a redux of

You want to save a marriage... but you may not be sure whatto do. And I guess it is also a question of whatnot to do.BOTH what TO do and what NOT TO do, are important. So, let's cover it! In this episode, I cover 5 more to-do's and to-don'ts. In a

Quiet Divorce. It seems to be the topic of article after article. And the articles make it seem like, No big deal, just happens, oh well.But it IS a big deal. And it ISNT anything new. Just another way of describing something we have discussed

It happens. In the middle of a marriage crisis, you can find yourself surrounded by negativity. A spouse negative about the marriage. Friends and family negative about your efforts to save your marriage. You negative, well, about everything you are do

When did it happen? When did your marriages trajectory head in the wrong direction?Probably long before you thought, long before you could see it. Almost always, it is a conscious and unconscious collusion between the spouses. And it makes sense. L

You want to save a marriage... but you may not be sure whatto do. And I guess it is also a question of whatnot to do.BOTH what TO do and what NOT TO do, are important. So, let's cover it! In this episode, I cover 5 to-do's and to-don'ts. And in th

What gets in the way of you getting traction in your efforts to save your marriage?These days, there is one very substantial reason... one thing that keeps you (and many others) from making progress. And it is only accelerating. What is it?Distracti

Is your marriage infected by the "zombie virus?" Do you find your relationship to be the "walking dead?" Are emotions lost and connections missing? Do you and your spouse respond to each other with "zombie grunts?"The infection can be stopped. You c