Many times, people contact me to tell me that their marriage is... well... continuing to spiral down, in spite of their efforts. - Over the years, I have noted some "turning points," when things often

You started working on saving your marriage. Good for you! - And then, you hit a bump. You get knocked down. Maybe you discovered an affair, physical or emotional. Maybe your spouse is irritable a

Several listeners asked why a spouse only remembers the negative, or only dwells on the negative. Why don't they remember the good times or see the good things? - Over the years, I have noticed this

How do you know if it is too late to save your marriage?? - That happens to be one of the most common questions I get from people... sometimes even at the beginning of a coaching sessions. But also b

My approach is the 3C approach to saving your marriage. The 3C's are C-onnect, C-hange, and C-reate. Connect with your spouse. Change yourself. Create a new path. - The first two may be more obvio

It is such a common demand from a spouse during a marital crisis: I need space! You just need to give me space! - Yet here I am, telling you to connect with your spouse, to rebuild the broken conn

In my Save The Marriage System Quick-Start Guide, I show the 8 distinct stages of a marriage crisis. But those are the stages of the crisis. There are also stages to your awareness of the crisis. - T

Most people dont come right out and say it, but they have a sneaking suspicion that they are the victim in their marital situation. They believe they have been done wrong more wrong than they have

Let me be the first to say, saving your marriage can be hard on you emotionally! - Well, I don't really need to tell you, do I? YOU are living it! - One of the tough things, if you are going it alone

For many couples in a troubled marriage, their first stop is marital therapy. In fact, for many, it is almost an instinctive reaction. Marriage problem? Head for therapy. - How do I know? - Because