For many couples in a troubled marriage, their first stop is marital therapy. In fact, for many, it is almost an instinctive reaction. Marriage problem? Head for therapy. - How do I know? - Because

Surely you can convince your spouse to work on your marriage right? Yes, your marriage is in crisis. But if you say the right thing or say it in the right way or convince, beg, cajole, argue, and

On a regular basis (meaning, several times each week), I have a discussion with a client that ends in the client saying, "I can't...." Yes, they finish the sentence in many ways. But the start of th

Can one person save a marriage, even if your spouse doesnt want it? - I do say that my Save The Marriage System can save your marriage, even if only you want it. - But what can you really do, if your

This is a SPECIAL EDITION of the Save The Marriage Podcast! Why? Because we are on the cusp of an elevated threat to marriages... and it might include your's. - There are 3 periods in the year that s

In my Save The Marriage System Quick-Start Guide, I show the 8 distinct stages of a marriage crisis. But those are the stages of the crisis. There are also stages to your awareness of the crisis. - T

There is a better than 80% chance that, at this moment, you are a Chaser. In doing a little informal research, I noticed that about 90% of the people who read my articles, listen to my podcast, read

Many people tell me of their desperation to find intimacy -- and their sadness over not having it in their marriage. - But is it possible to find that intimacy? Is there a path to intimacy in your ma

You hit the Pause Button on your marriage. I get it. You didn't realize you were doing it, and didn't know it was a problem. You just thought you were dealing with life -- the kids, a career, activ

Yes, this is the #1 thing people request in therapy. And no, fixing it will not fix your marriage. - This is part rant, part warning, and part explanation. Because, communication skills has somehow b