If you're blaming others for not being on the level in life you'd like to be, it's time to look in the mirror instead. 

Get out of your own way. 

Special thanks to Kathleen Majorsky for the topic suggestion. Check her out online at https://kathleenmajorsky.com/ and listen to her podcast with me here https://www.rtjmedia.com/podcast/episode/2624a8e3/s2e23-from-adventurous-chaotic-and-experimental-to-rooted-calm-and-exciting