The Rachel Jay Podcast

The Rachel Jay Podcast


Becoming Her, Anxious to Secure & Black Cat Energy with Margarita Nazarenko

October 20, 2024

She has arrived. This week I am joined by the queen the feminine energy, the author of The New Rules and the host of the Being Her podcast, Margarita Nazarenko.


This woman absolutely embodies everything she talks about. She has a passion for empowering women, promoting self development and has become the go to for all things confidence, relationships and dating.


From what I’ve observed on social media and also from talking to friends and their experiences, the landscape of today’s dating culture seems to have a lot women finding difficult to date or even find a partner.


In this chat, Margarita and I get stuck into:



  • The ideal dynamic between men and women during dating
  • What is the masculine and feminine polarity?
  • Are you in a mummy son relationship?
  • What is black cat energy and how you can embody it
  • Do you know your attachment style?
  • Moving from an anxious attachment to secure attachment
  • The falsity of authenticity
  • What does status have to do with it?
  • Creating a new identity and becoming ‘her’

Plus so much more!


Not only are we celebrating Margarita hitting 1 million followers on TikTok, Season 2 of her podcast also opens this week and her online course ‘Become Her’ starts on the 1st of November – click here.


Find more on Margarita here:


IG: @margaritanazarenko


TikTok: @margarita.nazarenko


Website: margaritanazarenko.com


Get 20 Feminine Energy Principles here


Get The New Rules here


Find more on Rach here:


IG: @rachjay__


TikTok: @rachjay_


Website: racheljay.co


The Core Club: thecoreclub.co


Amazon Book List: https://www.amazon.com.au/shop/rachjay__


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