Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships


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Look At The Good As Well As The Bad And The Ugly
June 07, 2020

You don’t need us to remind you of the grim state of the world. We are suffering one blow after another. Climate change seems to be an unstoppable monster clawing deeper and deeper into our planet. Zombie fires in the arctic are erupting from peat that...

How to Hear What is Being Shared With You
May 31, 2020

Phil had a relationship in his 30’s where his partner just wanted to be heard, but instead, he would offer advice. He was so accustomed to being called on to fix things like a broken door-lock that such conversations seemed like another request for hel...

The Dance of Grief and Joy
May 24, 2020

MAUDE: On a zoom call yesterday, a woman shared her feelings of grief. I realized it is an aspect of coping with this time in all our lives, that we haven’t yet blogged about. She was experiencing the loss of a loved one and shared with us how she was ...

How to Find Mutual Solutions and Avoid Conflict
May 17, 2020

One aspect of this stay-at-home period is how on top of each other some people are, and the risk of tension and conflict this creates. We often talk about having a conflict-free relationship. What do we mean in this instance? Conflict,

How to Handle these Changes in Your Life
May 10, 2020

We’ve spent the last month writing about staying at home during this pandemic and how that has affected relationships of all sorts. How could we write about anything else? It seems like the only thing people are talking about these days.

Community in the Year of the Virus
May 03, 2020

For us, connections with others are an important part of our lives, and we’ve been made freshly aware of that because the stay-at-home regime has stopped us from meeting face-to-face with people. No more walks, meals or movies with friends.

Living Alone in the Year of the Virus
April 26, 2020

Well, here we are, still in the year of the virus! Last week we shared experiences of couples and what it’s like living together during these times. This week we spoke with those who are living alone. Two of the people we spoke to are elderly.

Living Together in the Year of the Virus
April 19, 2020

It is gradually sinking in for all of us that this is going to be a far longer disruption of normal life than originally thought. We have lived through the first wave of changes: hand-washing, shopping lines, shortages, masks, avoiding crowds,

Time In The Year Of The Virus
April 12, 2020

In the last few weeks, a delightful ease has come over us. We have the sense of time being available and deadlines not weighing on us. Certainly our stay-at-home regime has produced savings in time. Breakfasts with friends are now replaced by phone cal...

Relationships in the Year of the Virus
April 05, 2020

Most of us are in a stay-at-home mode of enforced social survival behavior. Through this global phenomenon we all have an opportunity to find out many things about ourselves, our relationships and our interconnectedness. We, Phil and Maude,