A New Direction

Lead by 3 – The Simple Framework That Changes Everything
A New Direction brings you an in-depth conversation with retired Naval Academy alum Steven Mays, author of The Power of 3: Lessons in Leadership. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the endless “leadership frameworks,” this episode is a breath of clarity. Steven cuts through noise using a foundation rooted in three—three pillars, three practices, three indispensable commitments. It’s concise, potent, and built for people who lead under pressure.
In The Power of 3, Mays doesn’t shy away from the harder side of leading. He explores how despair, unmet expectations, and human frailty challenge even the best of intentions. But he also shows how effective leaders engage in three core acts: assist (serve those you lead), inspire (ignite purpose and vision), and depend (trust and rely on others). That last part may surprise you—he makes dependence not a weakness but a leadership strength. These themes are not abstractions; they’re revealed in stories, real tension points, and situations you’ll recognize.
On our show, I’ll push Steven to unpack exactly how those triads work in everyday leadership life. How do you “assist” without overstepping? When your team’s morale is sliding, how do you “inspire” in a real, not canned, way? And when things go sideways, how do you lean into “dependence” without losing authority or credibility? We’ll also dig into the internal life—how love, despair, and disappointment show up in your leadership—and how to structure your guardrails to stay steady even when people around you aren’t.
Make plans to join us and capture insights to lead yourself and others. Whether you lead a small team, a department, or your own personal mission, this isn’t just another leadership talk—it’s a chance to recalibrate how you lead from the inside out.
Steven May’s book, “The Power of 3: Lessons in Leadership” is a very quick read, but there is elegance in simplicity. And that is what this book brings. The idea that learning to lead does not have to be difficult. What Steven Mays gives us is how in the power of 3 we can learn to lead and lead well.
As with any great book he starts with the three fundamentals. Honesty, Courage, and Talent. Don’t be fooled by the word “honesty” because he gives it a different definition. And it all starts with an honest self-awareness of where are really. Then he moves to courage, which again he breaks down into 3 ideals…Accept it, Fix it, or Leave it. The least important of these three fundamental principles? Talent. As Steve Mays reminds us that leaders are not born, they are made if they have the right tools.
The book is filled with lessons of threes that he puts into triangles and demonstrates that The Power of 3 and the strength of 3 can be used to build successful and great leaders. While it is only 50 pages long if you dig deep into the simplicity of The Power of 3 you will discover more depth than you can imagine!
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