Warrior Mind Podcast

Warrior Mind Podcast


Habits, Routines and Rituals: Warrior Mind Podcast #504

September 19, 2020

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In this episode of the Warrior Mind Podcast I’m going to go over the differences between habits, routines and rituals and why knowing the difference is important.

In my coaching I assist many clients with releasing unsupportive habits, creating empowering routines and introspective rituals.

Often when I’m going through the process there are inevitably questions about the difference between the three. 

Many people I have found use the phrase habit and routine interchangeably.  Since words have power, when I help with the distinguishing the difference in these three, there is a subtle shift in perception. Once this begins and the person begins to describe these differently, they act differently and then almost like magic their results change.

So, what is the difference between habits, routines, and rituals?

First let’s look at dictionary.com definition of each for them

Routine

* A customary or regular course of procedure.* Commonplace tasks, chores, or duties as must be done regularly or at specified intervals; typical or everyday activity: the routine of an office.* Regular, unvarying, habitual, unimaginative, or rote procedure.

Habit

* An acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary: the habit of looking both ways before crossing the street.* Customary practice or use: Daily bathing is an American habit.* A particular practice, custom, or usage: the habit of shaking hands.* A dominant or regular disposition or tendency; prevailing character or quality: She has a habit of looking at the bright side of things.* Addiction, especially to narcotics (often preceded by the).

Ritual

* The established form for a ceremony; specifically: the order of words prescribed for a religious ceremony* Ritual observance; specifically* System of rites* Ceremonial act or action* An act or series of acts regularly repeated in a set precise manner

Enjoy this podcast on habits, routines and rituals

More on the differences between habits, routines and rituals

We can look at a habit as an individual and stand-alone behavior, i.e. smoking, negative thinking or even positive thinking, something that is completely unconsciousness.   The individual is almost totally unaware that they are performing the habit.

A routine can be looked at a set of actions that have an outcome in mind, i.e. working out, driving to work, etc.  A routine is also unconsciousness and the difference between a routine and a habit is you can look at a routine as a series of habits that have a specific end result.   

A ritual is a completely different way of performing a task or series of tasks. A ritual is performed with mindfulness and awareness.  A ritual doesn’t have to be associated with a religious or spiritual practice, but it does require being in the here and now.

So, when we look at these three actions the one thing that separates them is mindfulness, which is being 100% aware of what you are doing.

You can turn any habit or routine into a ritual simply by being mindful.  And here’s the great thing,