The Millennium Counseling Center Podcast

The Millennium Counseling Center Podcast


Dating in Your 20s Series: The Honeymoon Phase

May 06, 2025

Welcome to the Millennium Counseling Center podcast, where therapists Amelia Abernathy and Lilly Wehman dive into the highs and lows of dating in your 20s. In this episode, they explore the “honeymoon phase” of early relationships—when excitement and infatuation (or “boyfriend sickness”) take over. They discuss balancing time with partners, friends, and family, the shift from “I” to “we” in therapy sessions, and the challenges of addressing friends who feel sidelined. With personal anecdotes, like Amelia’s grandma’s dating adventures and Lilly’s reflections on integrating partners into friend groups, they offer insights on flexibility, self-awareness, and maintaining friendships amid new love. Tune in for a relatable, therapist-led chat on love’s early stages.

Key Discussion Points in “The Honeymoon Phase”:
  • Honeymoon vibes: Early relationships spark intense excitement, but can strain friendships.
  • Boyfriend sickness: Infatuation often shifts focus, reducing time with friends or family.
  • Self-awareness matters: Recognize when “we” language dominates or friends feel neglected.
  • Friendship flexibility: Relationships change; be open to ebbs and flows without letting go.
  • Stage differences: Long-distance or close-knit dynamics shape how the honeymoon phase feels.
  • Healthy check-ins: Honest, kind conversations with friends prevent resentment or jealousy.
Related content:

Dating in Your 20s Series: Timelines and Reclaiming Your Path | Dating in Your 20s Series: Relationship Milestones That Matter

Dating In Your 20s Anonymous Corner

We’d love to hear from you! Check out the anonymous DIY20s Form. It’s a safe, judgment-free space to share what’s going on in your love life.

Connect with the hosts of “The Honeymoon Phase”

Millennium Athlete Wellness: Website
Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn
Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | Linkedin

More About Millennium Counseling Center: 

At Millennium Counseling Center, our mission is to provide compassionate and personalized support for individuals facing challenges related to mental health, addiction, relationships, and trauma. Our dedicated and diverse staff works to create a safe, welcoming, and supportive environment for people from all walks of life. We are committed to fostering a program and treatment plan uniquely tailored to your needs and who you are, helping you find a path to healing and growth.

 

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