Welcome to the Dating in Your 20s series, hosted by Lilly Wehman and Amelia Abernathy from Millennium Counseling Center. This week, they’re joined by Oren Matteson, co-owner and clinical director at Millennium, who brings a seasoned male perspective to the dating conversation. Together, they dive into how societal templates, social media, and personal growth shape dating expectations in your 20s. From Oren’s reflections on past relationships to Lilly and Amelia’s current experiences, they explore balancing vulnerability with self-awareness and navigating the modern dating landscape.

Key Discussion Points in “Dating in Your 20s Series: Male Perspectives on Dating with Oren Matteson”

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• Template traps: How upbringing and culture set dating expectations.
  
• Gender lenses: Oren’s hybrid view vs. Lilly and Amelia’s 20s struggles.
  
• Social media’s role: Amplifying distraction and perception games.
  
• Growth mindset: Choosing partners for who they are, not who they could be.
  

Related content:

Dating in Your 20s Series: Relationship Milestones That Matter | Dating in Your 20s: Decoding Attachment Styles

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Connect with the hosts of “Dating in Your 20s Series: Male Perspectives on Dating with Oren Matteson”

Millennium Athlete Wellness: Website

Lilly Wehman: Millennium | LinkedIn

Amelia Abernathy: Millennium | Linkedin

Oren Matteson: Millennium | LinkedIn

More About Millennium Counseling Center: 

At Millennium Counseling Center, our mission is to provide compassionate and personalized support for individuals facing challenges related to mental health, addiction, relationships, and trauma. Our dedicated and diverse staff works to create a safe, welcoming, and supportive environment for people from all walks of life. We are committed to fostering a program and treatment plan uniquely tailored to your needs and who you are, helping you find a path to healing and growth.

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