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Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play?
February 26, 2024

This weeks question comes from a submissive whos getting their desire for kink and sex back but doesnt want to feel like theyre telling their Dom what to do. Heres the question: I (31F...The post Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know Im Ready for Sex and K

What is a Pleasure Dom?
February 23, 2024

Pleasure Dominant is a relatively new term, probably born from the internet, but what does it even mean? Lets talk about it. In this episode: New products available on our Etsy shop! Disclaimer: Regardless...The post What is a Pleasure Dom? appeared fir

What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load?
February 19, 2024

This weeks question comes from a submissive who wants to be told what to do in power exchange, but their Dominant cant handle the mental load. Heres the question: I ask my Dom, What...The post What Do I Do When My Dominant Cant Handle the Mental Loa

BDSM Reddit Response
February 16, 2024

Its been too long since weve responded to the BDSM side of Reddit, so here we are! In this episode: Were live streaming on Friday, February 16 at 9:30pm ET. Help kinksters in Atlanta...The post BDSM Reddit Response appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla Friend?
February 12, 2024

A kinkster wants to be their most authentic self with a close friend but isnt sure its working. Heres the question: I am currently struggling in a friendship and wondered if yall had any...The post Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla

How Do I Get More Kinky Fun When I Hate Planning For It?
October 23, 2023

This week, were talking about something that might be more common than you think needing to plan and schedule your kink scenes but feeling like that kills the spontaneity. Heres the question: How...The post How Do I Get More Kinky Fun When I Hate Pla

The Difference Between Power Exchange Relationships Being Hard vs Requiring Effort
October 20, 2023

Buckle up, yall, this episode is a ranty one. Too many times weve heard, Relationships are hard! But we dont believe theyre meant to be hard. Instead, they require effort and sometimes hard work....The post The Difference Between Power Exchange Rel

How Do I Make Sure My Submissive Needs Are Fulfilled?
October 16, 2023

This week, we answer a question that a lot of submissives have at some point in their kink life how to get your own needs fulfilled while fulfilling your Dominants needs, too. Heres...The post How Do I Make Sure My Submissive Needs Are Fulfilled? app

Silliness and Playfulness in D/s Relationships
October 13, 2023

I (Kayla) am often in a silly, goofy mood, and thankfully JB either is or will play along. So lets talk about it from a power exchange perspective. In this episode There are several...The post Silliness and Playfulness in D/s Relationships appeared firs

How Can I Be Vulnerable With New Dom After Bad Vanilla Break-up?
October 09, 2023

Its our first Q&A episode! These will be short episodes that focus on a single question that well answer with our D/s perspective. Heres the question we received: I recently got out of a...The post How Can I Be Vulnerable With New Dom After Bad Vanil