Relationships are a process not an outcome. Think about it, what would happen if it was an outcome? When would you know you've accomplished your goal? At what point is it time for the next? Imagine I told you, you maxed out on what you can get in this mar

So many times we get into fights with other people simply because we are talking a different language. You may both be talking English but you're each give the same thing two different definitions or calling that same thing two different names (or maybe n

Every single couple goes thru highs and loves but if these 6 pillars are strong, you'll be able to get thru anything: Emotional intimacy (including verbal and nonverbal communication) Physical intimacy Financial intimacy Spiritual intimacy Recrea

You may have listened to the previous episode about the 5 step method and decided it's okay to only do 3 of the steps. Or maybe do the steps out of order.  Guess what's gonna happen that why? It's not gonna work. In this episode we discuss the conce

There are 5 steps to creating the relationships of your dreams: 1) Getting clear on your true goal - you'll want to do the 7 levels deep exercise. 2) Creating structural tension 3) Stepping into the emotion of the end result 4) Recoding any resistance (th

Did you have any money conversations since you heard the last episode with Bob? How about do any journaling on money? If you said "no", you have also said, "I didn't have time yet." Or maybe deep down you really know the reason why you didn't do anything

What emotions do you have towards money? And how is it effecting you in your everyday life? If you answered none, think again.  Everyone has a money story. What was the first interaction you remember that you had with money? What was money like for y

What if I told you the way your brain is wired may be getting in your way of having an extraordinary marriage? You see, there are 3 phases of thinking: 1. Input - how we take in the information. 2. Elaboration  - how we process the information. 3. O

Are you afraid sometimes to share your emotions? I get it. It's hard. It's scary. And it's extremely vulnerable.  It's also very sexy. You see, when you express your emotions you connect with your partner on a much deeper level.  But what happe