Nobody likes to be judged.  Many people swear that they don’t judge people.  The fact is, people do judge.  Sometimes for big reasons and sometimes for small reasons.  It’s pretty easy to get sucked into conversations like that.  Being judged can really change how you see yourself.  The next thing you know is you’re telling yourself those same things….even if they aren’t true.  What you need to do explore the truth of what you know about yourself.  Be so confident, that no matter what people say, you are good with you.