01:24 - Jaemin’s book, Elegantly Simple Solutions to Complex People Problems, is well worth the read.

03:24 - Insecurities are a topic many people avoid, but Jaemin has made how to overcome insecurity his area of expertise.

04:30 - Judgment is like burning wool - here’s why.

09:47 - Depression is a problem, but it can also be a card people play.

13:49 - Self-awareness is the starting point of overcoming insecurity. However, it’s not always easy to achieve.

15:45 - This is where Jaemin gets the courage to go out and risk criticism while retaining his sense of self-worth…

19:03 - Contrary to popular belief, our behavior does not indicate our character. Most of us really want to be good people.

21:55 - Sometimes the best way to gain self-assurance is to get help from someone who doesn’t care.

23:04 - Are the standards you set really attainable?

24:54 - Some people think imbalance and great success go hand-in-hand.

28:15 - What advice has Jaemin got for the 20-somethings chasing success?

33:50 - People like James and Jaemin see the recurring patterns, which make them effective mentors.

36:37 - When you’ve had the “Aha!” moment, this is what’s next…