At 56 years old, Im walking into a Black womans dream Ive carried for decades sitting in New York, preparing to speak with agents and an editor from one of the Big Five publishing houses about m

We say it all the time check on your strong friend but do we really know what that means? In this Support Snippet, Shirl goes deeper than the surface-level reminder and speaks directly to what it

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Sometimes the support we need doesnt come with a loud arrival or a clear answer. Sometimes, it shows up in the in-between. The pause. The waiting. The quiet moments where nothing feels certain but

Youve put down strong. Youve tried the self-care Sundays, the soft life rituals, the silence and the scented candles. But somehow, you still feel like youre holding it all by yourself. In this epis

This week on Shades of Strong, were going all the way in. I'm sitting down with Dr. Cecily Moore for a raw, layered conversation about what it really costs to carry the strong Black woman narrative

So earlier this week I talked about what it feels like when you dont have anybody to reach for. But what about when folks are around and you still feel alone? Thats a whole different kind of grief

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The world is a lot right now. Some weeks feel heavier than others, and this has been one of those weeks. I wasnt about to just move like nothing was happening, so I came to the mic to sit with it for

Have you ever rewritten the same text five times just to make sure it didnt sound too harsh? Ever softened your no so it wouldnt feel like rejection? Ever held back your truth to avoid being calle