This video covers 3 places guys get stuck in broken trust, how he can connect with her pain after broken trust, and what to know if a guy is saying, “Aren’t you over that yet?”. TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section) 0:00 Intro / Boys don't cry? 0:40 One Solution: How guys can connect with her pain * 3:27 "Aren't you over that yet?" (Therapists said it will take this long) * 5:52 Guys say, "But I don't agree with her." (agreeing vs validating) 8:12 3 places guys can get stuck * 9:15 "If he doesn't agree with me, he abandons me" 11:16 The person I want to be 11:54 One Solution: An important mindset to have * 15:08 In the next episode: “... why does she keep attacking me?” -- https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #validation #trust #safety #relationships