Disagreements can lead to 3 types of invalidation, as well as 1 unique way invalidation erodes trust–especially when she feels he doesn’t understand her pain. We discuss this with Matt Fray, as well as a couple things the guy can do instead. TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section) 0:00 Intro 0:14 Our male clients have a lot of trouble with this 1:05 One Solution: How Matt explains it to male clients * 1:51 How disagreements lead to invalidation 2:41 3 ways we habitually invalidate (the triple threat) * 6:27 Another thing that erodes trust (he’ll do it again) * 7:55 How Jay created greater breakdown with Lori 9:01 One Solution: Pain is part of the healing process? Instead try this… 10:54 In the next episode: “Isn’t she over this yet?” -- https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #trust #relationships #invalidation #pain