Why is validation one quick way to heal trust? Because without it she will have a difficult time healing within the relationship. This video covers that concept, as well as why sexual affairs may be easier than emotional affairs. (Jay and I also talk about the guys we have a difficult time helping.) TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section) 0:00 Intro 0:13 Validation, Restoring Trust & Self-Awareness 2:24 Usually this doesn’t work early on 2:56 Treatment Induced Trauma 3:32 One Solution: She can't heal within the relationship unless… * 4:51 It's a brain thing 5:31 Why sexual affairs may be “easier” 7:02 Guys we have a difficult time helping 8:58 A favorite tool of addicts and chronic mistreaters * 10:46 In the next episode: 3 ways guys invalidate pain -- https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #validation #trust #affairs #marriageadvice