In this episode, we explore how addicts truly change by focusing on the impact of experiencing true pain and loss. Divided into two parts—one for non-Christians and the other for Christians—we discuss the significance of giving up power, inspired by scripture, to become truly healed and dependent on God. With references to personal anecdotes, men’s magazines, 12-step programs, and the idea of renouncing 'boss' culture, the script emphasizes humility, acceptance of weakness, and the power of community support in the journey of recovery. The transformation journey includes practical examples and scripture, highlighting the importance of growth and moving beyond survival mechanisms to achieve true healing and integration into healthy, supportive communities.

00:00 Intro
00:43 The first way addicts change
01:21 Something else that can help
01:36 Majestic splendor
03:11 The power-over dynamic (helpless? dependent?)
04:34 What it might look like
04:59 Be the boss?
06:24 Solution regarding addictive thinking (what it looks like in practical terms)
07:47 Why the power-over dynamic might come up
08:55 Outgrowing it
09:46 Objections (but who is stronger?)
11:22 Solution: You’re on land now (returning from the war)

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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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