***Trigger Warning for Alcoholics in Recovery*** In this episode, Jay addresses a common question addicts may have, along the lines of, “Will I have to pay for this forever?” He answers with the truth: After trust is broken by betrayal, it depends on how well the addict owns his part in her pain… and tries to aid in her recovery. 0:00 Introduction 0:21 Other forms of this question and initial answer 0:46 She doesn’t limp (a real life example) 2:00 Jay’s words to wives 3:01 Solutions for addicts* (Note: we don’t condone hitting) 4:56 Add something to your program (the quickest way)* 6:14 Another word picture (The ICU) 7:19 Things she might say to you (any indication you’re not safe) 8:46 Why birthdays and anniversaries may be hard for her 9:40 Can she forget this? Can she move forward? -- https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery #betrayal #relationships #pornaddiction #marriageadvice #marriagerecovery