***Trigger Warning for Alcoholics in Recovery***
In this episode, Jay addresses a common question addicts may have, along the lines of, “Will I have to pay for this forever?” He answers with the truth: After trust is broken by betrayal, it depends on how well the addict owns his part in her pain… and tries to aid in her recovery.

0:00 Introduction
0:21 Other forms of this question and initial answer
0:46 She doesn’t limp (a real life example)
2:00 Jay’s words to wives
3:01 Solutions for addicts* (Note: we don’t condone hitting)
4:56 Add something to your program (the quickest way)*
6:14 Another word picture (The ICU)
7:19 Things she might say to you (any indication you’re not safe)
8:46 Why birthdays and anniversaries may be hard for her
9:40 Can she forget this? Can she move forward?

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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website
https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners
https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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