Becoming Who You Are

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Goodbye January (and Hello Patreon!)
January 30, 2017

Let's say goodbye to the month that has been and get ready for the next with a roundup of 10 questions, recommended reading, and fun/useful links. January has been my first month back working on Becoming Who You Are since my daughter was born last ...

How to Ask for Something (in a Way That Leaves People Wanting to Say Yes)
January 23, 2017

Before we get to this week's post: Do you ever wish you could do more with your life, but held yourself back because you’re afraid of rejection? Check out The NO Game by my friend Jacob Sokol of Sensophy. The goal of the game is simple…

How to Cultivate a Healthy Relationship with Anger
January 09, 2017

Do you have a healthy relationship with anger? Like other so-called negative feelings, it's one of the more stigmatised emotions we experience and, if you’re like most people (including me), your relationship with anger might best ...

#106: A Review of ‘Guilt, Shame and Anxiety: Understanding and Overcoming Negative Legacy Emotions’ by Peter Breggin
January 05, 2017

This episode of the podcast is a conversation I had with Jake for the Psychology Book Club about the book Guilt, Shame and Anxiety: Understanding and Overcoming Negative Emotions by Peter Breggin. I've written about this book on Becoming ...

6 Things I’m Doing Instead of New Year’s Resolutions
January 04, 2017

I used to set New Year's resolutions every year without fail. And, every year without fail, I'd forget all about them by February, maybe March. Despite my track record (and the fact it never occurred to me to change my approach)

My Favourite Books on Life, Work and Growth from 2016
January 03, 2017

Phew. Looking back at the tail end of it all, 2016 has clearly been 12 months of high highs and low lows. Whatever else is happening in the world, books have always been a way for me to retreat away from the world for a while.

Want to Read More This Year? Here’s a Reading Challenge to Inspire You
January 02, 2017

Happy New Year, friends! As we embark on a new trip around the sun, I'm thinking about what I'd like to experience and learn this year. Among other things, this includes a friendly and fun reading challenge. I don't know about you, but I can ...

How to Do a Personal End-Of-Year Review
December 26, 2016

The year is drawing to a close (already…) and it’s time for our next trip around the sun. One of my favourite things to do at this time of year is set aside time to reflect on the year gone by and plan for the year ahead.

12 Fun Things to Do If You’re Alone for the Holidays
December 12, 2016

This is the first year my husband and I will spend the holidays as a family of three. I love this time of year and I’m looking forward to taking tiny human out to see the lights; I have plans to make lots of yummy Christmas food (although ...

#105: The Surprising Lesson We Can All Learn From Japanese Pottery
December 01, 2016

What does Japanese pottery have to teach us about feeling flawed and being kind to ourselves? Quite a lot, as it turns out. In this episode, I'm sharing the philosophy behind Kintsukoroi or Kintsugi, a method of mending broken, chipped or ...