Be-YOU-tiful Adaptive Warrior

Be-YOU-tiful Adaptive Warrior


It Doesn’t Happen Overnight

October 11, 2023
Persistency and Continuity Lead to Success


 


Trying something new, or being thrust into a new situation, can be tricky, difficult, frustrating, and downright terrifying.


As an amputee, I can truly understand and appreciate that. However, with the right mindset, the setting of goals, and the willingness to be persistent, even when experiencing failure, we can master what we want to achieve.


Overcoming setbacks through persistence and continuity is a powerful journey of resilience and determination. When faced with challenges, those who are persistent continue to pursue their goals despite obstacles. You will possess the tenacity to endure failures and setbacks, learning from each experience and using it as a stepping stone rather than a stumbling block. Setbacks, in an amputee’s journey, are common as we relearn to walk, build muscle and stability, all while our limb changes and fitting of prosthetics  is a challenge.



Hiking 2 miles of Awa’awapuhi Trail near Waimea Canyons

 


With the mindset of succeeding despite the hurdles, being persistent in reaching your goals is vitally important, as is being consistent. Continuity involves maintaining a steadfast commitment to your objectives, even in the face of adversity, and there will be adversity. Somedays, as an amputee, it will feel like it is always about adversity and the roadblocks trying to take you down will feel like stone walls. However, through continuity, you will develop a sense of discipline, enabling you to stay focused on your aspirations and making gradual progress.


 



Kayaking Hanalei for 3 hours

 


Combining persistence and continuity empowers you to navigate through setbacks with unwavering determination. you learn to adapt, improvise, and keep moving forward, ultimately transforming setbacks into opportunities for growth. This approach not only builds character but also fosters a resilient mindset, enabling you to achieve your goals despite the challenges you will face along the way.


When you see an amputee who is running a race, surfing the waves, hiking huge miles and high elevation, or happily moving about their day remember, they started with baby steps. They fell down a time or two. They spent hours, days, weeks, and even years practicing what they have achieved.


Everyone starts a new task as a beginner, learning from mistakes, and failures. It is those who continue to pick themselves up time and time again, and press forward with conviction who eventually find their way to success.


Success takes time, commitment, practice, and determination, despite setbacks.


You can find success, too, just don’t give up when things get hard. You’ll be so proud of yourself in the end.


 



Fun snorkeling days on Kauai

 



 


Today figure out what you want to achieve. It’s ok to dream big, but pick the first thing you really want to accomplish, with where you are right now.


Write that goal down!


Next, write down a deadline to achieve that goal.


Finally, list steps you will need two take each day to reach that goal by your deadline.


Now go out and work for what you want!


Remember, falls and failures happen, and can be great stepping stones for success.


And also know that it’s not uncommon to be heading the right direction and then hit a setback. You know the old saying, “two steps forward, one step back”, right? Just prepare yourself for that so you don’t get discouraged.


Stay the course! Don’t give up.


You deserve to be happy, and living your best life.


 


Until next week, and as always,


Be Healthy,


Be Happy,


Be You!!