Decades of research on relationship conflict has proven to me that the vast majority of conflicts can be resolved by truly listening with your third ear--the heart. Listening with the heart is a skill that involves tuning in to the emotions that your par

Conflict and the angry feelings that go with it are normal in intimate relationships. The problem is most people act out their angry feelings using what I call Fight Traps--those dysfunctional fighting tactics that actually add fuel to the fire and creat

As promised, Im going to delve into the world of Fight Traps--those faulty fighting tactics we all use. I group Fight Traps into two main categories: Open Warfare, which consists of name calling, character insults, attacking, blaming, yelling, etc. and S

This episode is based on my Psychology Today Blog article "Train Your Brain to Fight For (Not Against) You: How recognizing cognitive distortions can end relationship conflict." Cognitive distortions are the phenomenon of "hearing what you want to hear"

While in previous shows I discussed The Chemistry of Conflict and Fight Traps, this week Ill explain how Old Scars from childhood cause relationship fighting. I show you how you and your partner can help each other identify and heal your Old Scars. When

Reknowned author and relationship expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf takes her popular AskDrLove.com free advice column to live radio to answer all of your relationship questions. In this episode, Dr. Jamie Turndorf explains how the naturally occurring fight-or-f

Reknowned author and relationship expert Dr. Jamie Turndorf takes her popular AskDrLove.com free advice column to live radio to answer all of your relationship questions. This Episode features discussion of the article "How To Fight Right" from her most

Dr. Jamie Turndorf of AskDrLove.com presents her Top Valentines Day Guys FAILS, discusses the age old question "What is Love?", and answers your love and relationship questions live. Make this Valentines Day a success by keeping it light and remembering