After you've used My Create-A-Mate system, you now have a much clearer picture of who your perfect partner really is. But how do you use that knowledge to find out if the person you're interested in really fits the bill? The problem is, when you first st

I am often asked the same two questions: "How Do I find Mr. (or Ms.) Right?", and "Why do I always end up with the wrong person?" One problem is that, when looking for a dating or relationship partner, most people tend to make two mistakes: first, they g

...OR: "Does Your Frog Have too Many Warts?" She drinks too much. He's out of work and doesn't intend to get a job. He loves you but is “not ready” to commit to you yet. She's still attached to her ex. He has an explosive temper. She's a drama queen?

Millions of couples throughout the world secretly wonder if they have the kind of love that will make old bones...or sadly end up in the boneyard. But did you know that psychologists can predict with a 98% degree of accuracy which couples will survive? I

...and Create a Happy Relationship to Boot! Did you know that happy couples regularly enter each other's emotional realities by making the effort to see from the other's vantage point? The technical name for this skill is partial identification. What thi

Millions of couples are addicted to fighting and don't even realize it. The reason is because fighting provides hidden perks that include paying back people who harmed you in the past, and even creating emotional space and distance. Join me as I help you

When a conversation starts to cycle out of control, happy couples know how to steer their discussions back on course or postpone to a later time. Unhappy couples, by contrast, don't recognize when discussions are entering dangerous waters--meaning they'r

Millions of couples can't put their sexual arguments to bed. This is because sexual disputes have a habit of masking other, deeper issues. Tune in to discover how to use my “Reading Between the Sheets” technique to uncover and resolve the actual issu

In this show, I share my proven "X,Y Formula" for presenting whatever issue is troubling you. Decades of couples research out of my Center for Emotional Communication has proven that how you present your issue will determine whether or not your "discussi

Decades of observational research out of my Center for Emotional Communication has shown that how you communicate what is bothering you will determine whether your partner wants to listen and be responsive to you or not. Join me as I share my six proven