You would think that experiencing infidelity would decrease the chance that you would be unfaithful But this isnt always the case. In fact, being betrayed can lead to trauma that could then ca

If you acted out sexually at your place of work or during business travel, its common for betrayed partners to feel unsafe when it comes to your career and travel. Many men recovering from sex add

Dr. Trish Leigh uses advanced neuroscience technology to treat men with sex and porn addiction. In this episode, she explains to listeners how it works. Dr. Leigh looks for dysfunctional brain patt

What we measure matters. Without measurement and monitoring, how do you know if youre getting closer to where you want to be? This is absolutely true for sex addiction recovery. Most of the men I

In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter explains his integrity model and how it can be used in sex addiction recovery. As many of you know from listening to my podcast, I admire Jake Porter and all he has

In this brief podcast episode, I talk about what 95% of sex addicts blame for their slips and relapses and it's a total excuse. Its not their fault. They dont mean to make excuses. But, theres

Sex addiction is much bigger than most people realize. While it's often discussed that sex and porn addiction are a result of childhood trauma, emotional regulation, entitlement, etc. There are many m

Sex addiction sucks because it's the one youre not allowed to have. You can struggle with most every other problem but not this problem. Compassion will be hard to come by given the trauma you wi

Sarah Morales is the founder of Deconstructing Gaslighting. In this episode, we define gaslighting. What it is, what it isnt, and what to do about it. Sex addicts often gaslight their partners bef

It's a common assumption Roland, don't you think that these men need to hang out with men who are NOT like them? Dont you think this adds to their ego and narcissistic traits? No I strongly di