Theres an obsession with triggers in the sex addiction industry. But, its not that linear. Rarely is a trigger sexual. Yet, theres this focus in the sex addiction industry on arousal templates a

There is always a reason why a sex addict becomes an addict. Understanding your why makes sobriety easier to maintain. However, with sex addiction, theres much more than just WHY you do it that m

Sex and Porn Addiction is not about sex and pornography. It is all about the story attached to the behavior. Most sex addicts have no idea what these stories are. As a result, stopping these behaviors

Carol Juergensen Sheets is considered by many to be the "grandmother" of sex addiction. Her book, "Help Her Heal," is used by thousands of couples all over the world. Sex and porn addicts have a lo

As a high-achiever and entrepreneur, Ive always taken an issue with step 1 of the twelve steps: We admitted we were powerless. I believe this is one of the reasons why so many men struggle with

Betrayal trauma adds a complex layer to relational recovery. Sex and porn addiction takes a toll on the betrayed partner and they will need specific things to heal the marriage and rebuild trust. Empa

Sex and porn addiction happen in an environment that allows them to happen. Often, men try to stop. But, stopping something that your brain wants to do is quite difficult. There is a reason th

There are a ton of resources, podcasts, and books about making it through the initial crisis following sexual betrayal. But, there's hardly anything about thriving as a couple after betrayal. My clien

If you have a sex or porn addiction, then you've heard about the shame/acting-out cycle. But, can you break the cycle if you don't understand shame and how it works? Troy Love is a Psychotherapist,

Humans are hard-wired to succeed. But, what is success? Is it money? Is it being able to get any woman you want? Is it being wanted and lusted after? Sex and porn addiction is not about sex and por