Sex addiction sucks because it's the one youre not allowed to have. You can struggle with most every other problem but not this problem. Compassion will be hard to come by given the trauma you wi

Sarah Morales is the founder of Deconstructing Gaslighting. In this episode, we define gaslighting. What it is, what it isnt, and what to do about it. Sex addicts often gaslight their partners bef

It's a common assumption Roland, don't you think that these men need to hang out with men who are NOT like them? Dont you think this adds to their ego and narcissistic traits? No I strongly di

This episode is much different than anything Ive done. Its a personal story of the pain that sex addiction can bring to a family. Kendra agreed to share her story with my audience. As you will cl

Successful men with a sex addiction often get criticized for their entitlement, grandiosity, or their superiority complex. But, where do these traits come from? Ill be the first to admit that m

In this episode, we introduce a unique approach to sex addiction treatment. Laura Childers uses neuromodulation to help sex addicts and betrayed partners get unstuck. Laura and I talk about how thi

When it comes to sex addiction your why matters. It exposes the perceived value of the behavior that youre chasing. In my opinion, you cannot be in good recovery until you understand what it is

Sobriety and recovery are two different things. Sobriety is needed before you can truly recover. But can sobriety alone take you the distance? Marnie Ferree is the founder of Bethesda Workshops in

12-step meetings are designed to go through the 12 steps. They are not designed for connection. And, they are not therapy. Sex addiction is incredibly different from guy to guy. There is no one-siz

Yes, theres the sex addiction, the compulsive sexual behavior, and theres the lying. Deceptive sexuality needs to be addressed in addition to your sex/porn addiction. Cheryl Camarillo and I a