The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show

The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show


Telling An Emotional Person To Think Doesn’t Typically Help With Nick McGowan

April 04, 2024

“I had been afraid to really feel my feelings for a long time because I was told everything short of they were not welcome here and that I shouldn’t have them.” In this episode, Nick delves into the differences between emotional and logical individuals. Drawing from personal experiences, Nick reflects on how he was encouraged to prioritize logical thinking growing up despite being naturally inclined towards feelings and emotions. What to listen for: Exploring what resonates more with us, the emotional or logical side. The difference between emotional individuals who tend to feel things deeply before rationalizing, while logical individuals, engage in immediate analytical thinking when faced with situations. Acknowledging the importance of understanding and respecting different approaches so we can empathize with others’ perspectives Encouragement to explore unfamiliar approaches and learn from each other’s strengths, fostering greater empathy and communication. “When anything happens in the world, when anything happens specifically in your world… you start to think about those things instantly.” Reacting is different from acting upon this is a momentary decision Looking for our native way of handling situations and leaning into that Putting a face to a name by pinpointing these types of people in your life “Understanding how we feel or think about situations will help us understand how others feel and think about situations.” When we understand how we relate to the world and how others relate, we can form a better understanding of each other Seeing through someone else’s eyes calls for us to feel and think through their eyes as well No matter how you relate to the world, you’re not alone “We can learn from each other and we can try to emulate or try on different things to see how they feel or what we think about them.” Being open to learning is a necessary step in healing and growing Emulation is something we’ve been doing since birth Seeing how others react and act up in life can influence the way we handle situations About Nick McGowan I’m Nick McGowan, entrepreneur, podcaster, and mental health advocate, and I've been on a 20+ year journey of personal development, learning to master my mindset, emotions, and the art of living with purpose. As a Mindset and Self-Mastery Mentor, I work with ambitious men and women who want to live their most authentic and joyous life, by helping them master their mindset, emotional awareness, and authentic communication. My mission is to empower people to lead lives that feel aligned, grounded, and truly their own. Throughout my career, I’ve built teams, streamlined systems, and improved client experiences across SaaS, media, marketing, and personal development spaces. Whether I’m leading cross-functional projects, optimizing SEO, Podcasting, designing strategies, or guiding clients through transformation, I bring a hands-on, solution-focused approach to everything I do. I’m also the host of The Mindset and Self-Mastery Show, where my guests and I unpack the stories that shape us, challenge us, and ultimately guide us back to who we are at our core. On this show, we uncover the secret gems others have discovered through trial, error, and breakthroughs so you can fast-track your growth, and master your mindset on your pursuit toward self-mastery.  With years of podcasting and two decades of marketing experience, I’ve mastered the storytelling, interview flow, strategy, and technical production that elevate a podcast from "just content" to something truly impactful. Whether you're a leader looking to amplify your message, or a seasoned speaker and podcast host looking to sharpen your edge or even a beginner who is wondering how to share their message, I mentor thought leaders through every step of having the conversation they're here to have on this planet. So, what message are you here to share?! Resources: Interested in starting your own podcast or need help with one you already ha...