Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer


Latest Episodes

Hot Porn Seaches (w/ Bridget Everett)
May 19, 2023

The hilarious Bridget Everett (Somebody, Somewhere) joins Nicole to discuss the hot porn searches they've been into, the need for increased privacy on dating apps, Bridget's experience hooking up with a go-go dancer at a gay bar, and her stand-up routine

Monogamously Challenged (w/ Holly Robinson Peete)
May 12, 2023

Actress Holly Robinson Peete (21 Jump Street, Queen's Court) opens up about her experience being in a relationship with someone who is "monogamously challenged", dating around Paris in order to learn to speak French, and being very publicly proposed to on

Secrets To a Long, Loving Marriage (w/ John Leguizamo)
May 05, 2023

Actor John Leguizamo (Encanto, Moulin Rouge!, Ice Age) chats with Nicole about his secrets to a long, loving marriage, how he balances work and relationships, and his efforts to boost Latin representation in media.  Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit

Lesbian Sex (w/ Ashley Gavin)
April 28, 2023

Comedian Ashley Gavin (host of We're Having Gay Sex) teaches Nicole all about lesbian sex and relationships. They cover scissoring and tribbing, having secret girlfriends in high school, and the details of her open relationship. Ashley also shares her exp

"Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Poly Relationships (w/ Zoe Lister-Jones)
April 21, 2023

Actress/writer/director Zoe Lister-Jones (Slip) shares her experience opening and closing her "don't ask don't tell" poly relationship, what she's learned after exiting a 17-year marriage, and delves into the empowering nature of "dating to fuck". Nicole

Staying Friends with your Ex (w/ James Marsden)
April 14, 2023

Actor James Marsden (Sonic The Hedgehog, Hairspray, Jury Duty) joins Nicole to talk about his new singledom, remaining friends with all of his exes, his romantic side, and reviews Nicole's latest Tinder profile. Nicole teaches Marsden about bussies and sc

A Love Queen (w/ Sasha Velour)
April 07, 2023

Drag queen icon Sasha Velour (winner of Drag Race S9) chats with Nicole about coming out to their dad at a TGI Fridays, the challenges of working with their boyfriend, and speaks out on the current backlash against drag.  We just recorded a fabulous LIVE

Why Won't You Go Get a Transvaginal Ultrasound? (w/ X Mayo)
March 31, 2023

Comedian and writer X Mayo (The Daily Show, American Auto, Swarm) chats with Nicole about her success making friend connections on Raya, how she positively re-framed her outlook on dating, and her life changing experience shooting a nude scene in Swarm. P

Marrying for Tax Purposes (w/ Jeff Hiller)
March 24, 2023

Comedian and actor Jeff Hiller (Somebody Somewhere) reunites with Nicole to share how he met his husband on Chemistry.com, his experience acting on a reality TV dating show, and how a fight on Fire Island saved his marriage. Plus, Nicole reads the DM that

Being 'In Like' vs Being 'In Love' (w/ Gabrielle Dennis)
March 17, 2023

Comedian and actress Gabrielle Dennis (A Black Lady Sketch Show, Luke Cage) chats with Nicole her philosophy as to why falling "in like" with your partner is more important than being in love, opens up about her experience dating a pedophile, and her love