Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
Latest Episodes
Advice From an Intimacy Expert (w/ Shan Boodram)
Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram (Sexology, Lovers & Friends) joins Nicole to teach her how to radiate better vibes on dates, master the art of life goal prioritization, and explore the intriguing concept of marriage pacts. Have you ever wo
Breaking Up (w/ Eric Andre)
Is it worse to break up with someone, or get broken up with? Comedian Eric Andre (Bombing with Eric Andre) joins Nicole to delve into the heartache of breakups, including the time Eric was dumped via note. He also shares the nerve-wracking story about los
Positive Affirmations to Change Your Psyche (w/ Leslie Jones)
Comedian Leslie Jones (SNL) chats with Nicole about the challenges of adjusting to a new relationship, strategies to eliminate negative self-talk, and offers Nicole advice on her latest breakup. Plus, Leslie talks about the married chucklefuckers approach
Achieving 'Couple Goals' (w/ Michael Jai White)
Ever wondered what lies behind those picture-perfect 'couple goals'? Action star Michael Jai White (Black Dynamite, Outlaw Johnny Black) joins Nicole to spill his secrets to a happy, argument-free relationship. He shares why he doesn't believe in 'dating'
Sex and Love Addict (w/ Maria Bamford)
Ever wondered what it's like getting intimate with a clown? Deep dive as comedian Maria Bamford (Arrested Development, Big Mouth) unravels her experiences as sex and love addict, the relationship tools she's learned in her 12 step programs, and her mental
Feeling Safe in a Relationship (w/ Uzo Aduba)
The Emmy-winning Uzo Aduba (Orange Is The New Black) chats with Nicole about how her dating app DMs changed after booking Crazy Eyes, finding love at a mixer, the deep connection between her personal grief and art, and the importance of honesty in relatio
Nicole Eats a Banana from a Sex Worker's Pussy (w/ Naomi Rodgers)
Broadway star Naomi Rodgers (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical) opens up about secretly dating her co-star while on tour, and offers advice how to grieve and get over a breakup. Nicole shares her latest European dating mishaps, including an unforgettable visi
300 Episodes of Why Won't You Date Me (w/ Sasheer Zamata)
It's episode 300! But how is Nicole STILL SINGLE? On this milestone occasion, she's joined by her best friend Sasheer Zamata (co-host of Best Friends) to get to the bottom of it. In this special retrospective, they explore:How Nicole's dating life has e
Romancing Overseas (w/ Zurin Villanueva)
Broadway superstar Zurin Villanueva (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical) joins Nicole for a discussion about the awkwardness of working together with a past hookup, safety precautions when dating abroad, and the best grocery store to find a good man. Plus, do
Gay Orgies (w/ Jay Jurden)
The hilarious comedian Jay Jurden joins Nicole to talk about his secret relationship with a frat boy, working at Abercrombie & Fitch during its peak era, the best app for threeways, and what goes on at a gay orgy. Plus, Nicole gets hit on by a 911 res