Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer


Latest Episodes

Advice From an Intimacy Expert (w/ Shan Boodram)
October 06, 2023

Sexologist and intimacy expert Shan Boodram (Sexology, Lovers & Friends) joins Nicole to teach her how to radiate better vibes on dates, master the art of life goal prioritization, and explore the intriguing concept of marriage pacts. Have you ever wo

Breaking Up (w/ Eric Andre)
September 29, 2023

Is it worse to break up with someone, or get broken up with? Comedian Eric Andre (Bombing with Eric Andre) joins Nicole to delve into the heartache of breakups, including the time Eric was dumped via note. He also shares the nerve-wracking story about los

Positive Affirmations to Change Your Psyche (w/ Leslie Jones)
September 22, 2023

Comedian Leslie Jones (SNL) chats with Nicole about the challenges of adjusting to a new relationship, strategies to eliminate negative self-talk, and offers Nicole advice on her latest breakup. Plus, Leslie talks about the married chucklefuckers approach

Achieving 'Couple Goals' (w/ Michael Jai White)
September 15, 2023

Ever wondered what lies behind those picture-perfect 'couple goals'? Action star Michael Jai White (Black Dynamite, Outlaw Johnny Black) joins Nicole to spill his secrets to a happy, argument-free relationship. He shares why he doesn't believe in 'dating'

Sex and Love Addict (w/ Maria Bamford)
September 08, 2023

Ever wondered what it's like getting intimate with a clown? Deep dive as comedian Maria Bamford (Arrested Development, Big Mouth) unravels her experiences as sex and love addict, the relationship tools she's learned in her 12 step programs, and her mental

Feeling Safe in a Relationship (w/ Uzo Aduba)
September 01, 2023

The Emmy-winning Uzo Aduba (Orange Is The New Black) chats with Nicole about how her dating app DMs changed after booking Crazy Eyes, finding love at a mixer, the deep connection between her personal grief and art, and the importance of honesty in relatio

Nicole Eats a Banana from a Sex Worker's Pussy (w/ Naomi Rodgers)
August 25, 2023

Broadway star Naomi Rodgers (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical) opens up about secretly dating her co-star while on tour, and offers advice how to grieve and get over a breakup. Nicole shares her latest European dating mishaps, including an unforgettable visi

300 Episodes of Why Won't You Date Me (w/ Sasheer Zamata)
August 18, 2023

It's episode 300! But how is Nicole STILL SINGLE? On this milestone occasion, she's joined by her best friend Sasheer Zamata (co-host of Best Friends) to get to the bottom of it. In this special retrospective, they explore:How Nicole's dating life has e

Romancing Overseas (w/ Zurin Villanueva)
August 11, 2023

Broadway superstar Zurin Villanueva (Tina: The Tina Turner Musical) joins Nicole for a discussion about the awkwardness of working together with a past hookup, safety precautions when dating abroad, and the best grocery store to find a good man. Plus, do

Gay Orgies (w/ Jay Jurden)
August 04, 2023

The hilarious comedian Jay Jurden joins Nicole to talk about his secret relationship with a frat boy, working at Abercrombie & Fitch during its peak era, the best app for threeways, and what goes on at a gay orgy. Plus, Nicole gets hit on by a 911 res