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Ep. 189 “A Knife to the Joke Fight” LIMITED EPISODE
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On this episode:
Balance & Mental Health: Patrick emphasizes the benefits of cycling over driving in NYC for mental health. Highlights personal challenges of juggling multiple jobs and family commitments, stressing the importance of self-care.
Artistic Influence: Names Jesse Wells, Fiona Apple, and Edan as key inspirations for his work. Discusses how music and lyrics serve as a creative outlet, especially after the emotional strain of promoting his comedy special.
Community & Future Plans: Recaps recent comedy shows in Tennessee, Atlanta, and Rochester, expressing gratitude for support from family and the comedy community. Plans to develop a new story for Risk podcast and consider creating a comedy special based on personal experiences.
Notes
️ Podcast Introduction & Personal Updates (00:00 – 07:45)
Patrick opens the episode solo, sharing anecdotes about parenting, daily routines, and his work as a wellness and executive functioning coach.
Describes the benefits of cycling over driving in New York City for mental health and serenity.
Reflects on the challenges of balancing multiple jobs and family responsibilities, especially after recent travel and performances.
Artistic Inspiration & Creative Process (07:45 – 14:06)
Patrick discusses the importance of identifying personal artistic influences, naming Jesse Wells, Fiona Apple, and Edan as current top inspirations.
Explains how music and lyrics provide catharsis and creative fuel, especially when feeling overstimulated by podcasts and pop culture.
Mentions a recent emotional hangover from promoting his comedy special and the need to refill his creative well with new influences.
Reading Habits & Literary Interests (14:06 – 17:10)
Shares frustration about being locked out of a Kindle book and pivots to reading detective noir, inspired by a podcast taping with Ronan Hirshberg and Sam Morrill.
Reflects on the value of consuming both high art and ‘trash’ literature for creative balance.
Comedy Shows & Future Projects (17:10 – 21:43)
Recaps recent comedy performances in Tennessee, Atlanta, and Rochester, including a guest set at the Comedy Catch and a recovery conference show.
Expresses gratitude for support from family and fellow comedians, highlighting the importance of community and mentorship.
Discusses plans to develop a new story for the Risk podcast and contemplates producing a new comedy special based on personal experiences.
Family Segment & Personal Reflections (21:43 – 32:42)
Patrick and Ross record a late-night segment, reflecting on their exhaustion from work and parenting.
Lighthearted discussion about reality TV shows (Below Deck, Housewives, Love Hotel) and the escapism they provide.
Share humorous anecdotes about travel fatigue, post-flight routines, and missing each other during busy periods.
Acknowledge the recent passing of Aunt Helen, expressing love for family and the importance of staying connected.
️ Pop Culture, Industry Gossip & Stand-Up Experiences (32:42 – 39:00)
Ross shares industry gossip about Pedro Pascal’s sexuality, discussing representation and public personas in Hollywood.
Patrick recounts a recent comedy show with Sean Weiss (former Mighty Ducks actor), noting his recovery journey and unique pre-show behaviors.
Conversation touches on the quirks of comedians, the challenges of performing in non-traditional venues, and the camaraderie among comics.
Patreon Promotion & Closing Remarks (40:34 – 41:30)
Patrick promotes the podcast’s Patreon, outlining membership tiers and bonus content.
Encourages listeners to support the show financially if able, emphasizing the importance of sustaining creative projects.