We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast


Latest Episodes

Episode 103: Facing First-Timer Fears at Desire Resorts
December 21, 2022

Listen in as our event guests discuss working through their individual fears, anxieties and challenges at a clothing optional resort during our week together at Desire Pearl Resort just south of Cancu

Episode 102: You Gotta Own Your Own Sh*t
November 07, 2022

We sit down with four of our lifestyle friends and share real stories about what it's like to experience hurt feelings during an event and how to dissect, debrief, discover and confront the root cause

Episode 101: Deal Breakers
October 12, 2022

We discuss four distinct behaviors we consider to be deal breakers to moving forward and possibly making new lifestyle friends and connecting with potential play partners. Sharing opinions on politic

Episode 100: Are You Willing to Put in the Hard Work?
August 31, 2022

Finding your tribe, making lifelong friends, connecting for sexy playtime and growing your primary relationship are just a few ways to define 'success' in the lifestyle. Many may mistakenly believe yo

Episode 99: Harnessing That New Relationship Energy
July 31, 2022

New Relationship Energy (NRE) is that sexual buzz we feel when we first meet and connect with a couple or individual. We discuss navigating this heightened state of emotional and sexual feelings by pr

Episode 98: The Need for Lifestyle Community
June 21, 2022

As the idea and exploration of consensual non-monogamy continues to grow we have noticed the need for organized community. The different flavors and diverse approaches means that one size does not fit

Episode 97: Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing
May 25, 2022

To quote Mrs Jones, "we should be an example and not a blueprint." It may seem natural to adapt our 'thing' into your lifestyle journey but that could be a mistake. Giving yourselves an opportunity to

Episode 96: Non-Monogamy Coaching by Expansive Connection
April 24, 2022

Catherine (one of our favorite humans) and her team from Expansive Connection join us to discuss how they have created a unique method of coaching non-monogamous people! Not only do they offer a 'judg

Episode 95: The Lifestyle IS Real Life
March 29, 2022

We often hear couples suggest they are taking a break from the lifestyle due to 'real life' issues. We also hear some say that 'real life' is getting in the way of their lifestyle activities. In thi

Episode 94: Is it Jealousy or Envy?
February 16, 2022

Have you experienced lifestyle play partners getting a little upset when you choose to spend time with others? How about hard feelings when one of you seems to be enjoying the lifestyle more than the