Freshly Pressed from The Mojo Maker Show – Episode 98 – I chat with Brocode Founder Clint Vosloo on his personal journey – hero to ground zero and back.

From top of his game and “happily” married – to separation, navigating the way through child custody and the chips being down.

How he overcame “shame” to reach out for help, why vulnerability is an asset and how to surround yourself with the right people when you are going through challenges.

In this episode I chat with Clint about the purpose behind BROCODE Life and the new rules of engagement for men to be accountable in all areas of their world

Bro Code – Recognising There’s An Issue

One of the hardest elements for anyone is to actually recognise that things are NOT right and to own that. Not to push it down, not to distract with other areas like work or going “under ground” into a man cave. But truly acknowledging there is a huge change occurring and things will not be the same.

Bro Code – Getting the Right Support

Clint shared that his parents view about not showing vulnerability was putting pressure not to get outside support. However in the end that approach wasn’t working and he had to overcome the shame of “asking for help”. Result = best thing he could have done.

Our message: Counselling is cool – just make sure you find a counsellor/therapist or coach who is truly experienced, you gel with really holds you accountable, has the right tools and genuinely wants the best outcome for you.

Friends? Great but ensure you gravitate towards friends who are supportive, not drama feeders or encouraging you to act out further. You need people around you in crisis that are emotionally healthy.

Bro Code – Redefining Your Internal Rule Book

The ideas and subconscious beliefs – your working set habits and reactions. that served you before, are probably not going to serve you now. Change is inevitable, growth is optional.

Chances are you will need to really evaluate what you are measuring your happiness, success and values against. Are you being accountable for your actions or just caught up in a cycle.

Bro Code – Be Willing To Hear A Difference Perspective

The path you’re walking is not new – it just feels like it. When you are ready to listen ensure it’s from friends and experts that actually live what they preach, are emotionally healthy and there to provide pragmatic advice.

When it comes to family, separation and custody there doesn’t need to be anger and animosity.

It’s so crucial to have a sound perspective to guide you through the most challenging processes, to avoid continued blame and to actually hold you accountable to set a good example for your future and for your children.

Bro Code – Get Focused

Stop looking back and really look at your own self to live your best life possible. Reflection is important but defining what great looks like is vital. This is something as a coach I focus on with my clients – what got you to this point is one thing, where you go to from here is firmly in your control.

* Avoid hanging out with toxic energy draining people* Choose your time wisely* Reinvest in your health and wellbeing* Surround yourself with clear,