Welcome to episode 264 of the Love Live Connection podcast! My caller today, Amy, has two issues. She keeps finding herself in the same pattern over and over again, settling for people and relationships she knows she doesn’t want long-term. She also has a fear of being in a committed life-long partnership, even though it’s what she desires. Self-sabotage like this is more common than you think and can happen for several reasons: confirmation bias, over-identification with the part of ourselves we want to change, fear of vulnerability in allowing and receiving, and worry about what others’ think. So keep all of this in mind for today’s coaching call. 7:16 - Amy describes the pattern she keeps repeating 11:14 - What her fear of success is really about 19:25 - An assignment to help her let her light shine 26:37 - Another good exercise for getting in deep with subconscious fears 31:42 - Recapping the coaching call with Amy   I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you! After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps: Are you done with where you are right now?  With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love.  Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here. Sign up for my new course: BreakUP to BreakTHROUGH If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my waitlist here. Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!