Returning guest Helena Nista is a sex therapist, tantra practitioner and author of Legendary Lover. She was a major hit with you guys the first time she was on due to her straightforward yet happy-go-lucky style, all the while absolutely free of shame while exuding pure class and femininity. That's a winning combination, so I invited her back this time to discuss how we as men should talk to women about orgasms...then actually give them all they can handle. What better place to start such a conversation than with the idea of 'mental foreplay'? Why is it that women can talk so naturally about sexual matters, yet most men freak out over it? Should we even talk about sex at all? Why not just make a move when the time is right? But wait a minute...when exactly IS the right time? Dial up the flirtation, thrill women to the moon and back, and make them come back for more. Helena spills all the secrets, and is as charming as ever as she does. And how about when we're actually in the bedroom? How can we guard against 'failing to deploy'? What different kinds of orgasms do women have, and how do we find out what they like? Also, discover how to turn even the most 'alpha' woman into a doe-eyed sex kitten. Is it true women instinctively want to pleasure us when we pleasure them? Plus, you'll be treated to a fascinating conversation about the almost supernatural elements of sexual pleasure that are rarely, if ever, talked about in the open (this even caught Helena off-guard). Fair warning...you may need a cold shower after this one, so take a deep breath before clicking 'play'. In order to improve your sex life, you have to have the right woman in it to begin with. Talk to me 25 minutes for free: https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!