Homeschooling After Public (or Private) School How to Make the Transition Peaceful & Productive

Vintage Homeschool Moms — Episode 79 (Replay)

Host: Felice Gerwitz — author, publisher, and your weekly encourager for living a Christian life where every moment counts.

Big question: How do you bring a child home from a traditional classroom without losing your relationship—or your sanity?

Episode snapshot

Felice talks with guest Michelle Pohl, a mom who transitioned her fourth-grader (and kindergartener) from brick-and-mortar school to home. They get real about what’s actually hard (hint: it’s not fractions), why rebuilding connection comes before curriculum, and the small daily habits that help mom set a calm tone in the home. You’ll hear practical ideas for de-schooling, rhythms that work, how to handle “That’s not how my teacher did it,” and why it’s okay that mom is different—and should be.

Highlights & takeaways

• Relationship first, lessons second. The biggest challenge wasn’t academics—it was re-connecting after years of go-go-go schedules. Expect the first year to focus on trust-building and new family rhythms.

• Mom sets the tone. Simple anchors change the day: quiet time with the Lord, a shower and getting dressed (even if it’s fresh pajamas!), and a warm cup of tea to slow reactions and increase patience.

• De-school with intention. If possible, transition over summer or after Christmas and allow buffer weeks for rest, field trips, and previewing curriculum. Let emotions settle before you launch.

• Customize the learning space. Snacks on hand, comfy seating, earbuds with worship music for easily distracted kids, clipboards for mobility—home shouldn’t copy school desks.

• Handle comparisons with calm. When kids say, “That’s not how my teacher did it,” try: “Every teacher is different. At home, I’ll teach you in ways that fit you—and if I don’t know, I’ll find out.”

• Plan—then hold it loosely. Map the year so you can pivot without panic. Build in breaks even if you could “finish by noon”; little brains (and big ones) need margin.

• Practical must-haves. Don’t laugh—an electric pencil sharpener can feel like the heavens opening. Keep water nearby, too.

• Why homeschool is ministry. Raising children is good work and Kingdom work. Your daily diligence—fractions, read-alouds, character—matters.

Suggested routines that helped Michelle

• Morning anchors: Devotions/prayer, basic get-ready routine, breakfast together, then start by 9:00.

• Choice within structure: Let kids choose which subject to start—unless attention is slipping, then gently redirect.

• Built-in breaks: Short, frequent pauses to laugh, move, and connect keep learning sweet.

• Family conversation: Let lessons spill into dinner talk to normalize learning as a lifestyle.

If you’re preparing to bring kids home

Give yourselves time to de-school and de-stress.

Research curriculum—but remember: the “perfect” one is the one you’ll actually use.

Expect a honeymoon, then hard work—both are normal.

Pray for (and plan) routines that fit your family’s wiring, not someone else’s Instagram.

Resources & links

• Felice’s books & curriculum: MediaAngels.com

• Guest blog: BloomingWithJoy.com (Michelle Pohl)* Now

• Vintage Homeschool Moms archive: TheVintageHomeschoolMoms.com

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Sponsor/Network: Vintage Homeschool Moms is a production of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. Visit the site for more Christ-centered homeschool shows and resources.

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