When Homeschooling Feels Like a Battle: Encouragement for Moms of Strong-Willed or Unmotivated Kids

Parenting a strong-willed child—or one who flat-out refuses to do their homeschool work—can feel like a daily uphill climb. Add in the unique stressors of military life like deployments, PCS moves, and constant change, and it’s easy to feel worn out and discouraged.

In this episode of the Military Homeschool Moms Podcast, your host, Crystal Niehoff, shares:

• Why a strong-willed child can actually be a blessing in disguise.
• The importance of prioritizing your relationship with your child over lessons and assignments. Crystal likes to call this “tying heartstrings.’
• The difference between discipleship and discipline—and how proactive training saves heartache later. As Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
• How to discipline calmly and effectively without yelling or anger.
• Special considerations for military families—like how deployments and frequent moves affect behavior.
• Tips for moms to manage their own stress while homeschooling and parenting.

You’ll also hear a story of encouragement about Thomas Edison, a strong-willed figure who was once considered “unteachable,” but his mother’s steady love and belief shaped him into a world-changer.

So, mama, whether you’re dealing with crossed arms at the math table, tears during reading time, or flat-out refusal to do assignments, this episode will leave you encouraged and equipped with practical strategies.