Summary: The clarity of our feedback is key. From timing, to amount, to directness and indirectness and so much more, the "correct feedback" matters most in a distressed nervous system full of noise and confusion. We can't, and shouldn't, expect ourselves to be perfect. We can hope to continually get closer and clearer at reflecting "the right direction" appropriately. Here's a completely sideways story to help you think about the clarity of your feedback.