Tuff Love with Robert Kandell
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Writing: Why Men Don’t Get Women’s Signals
How biology, evolution, and cultural training conspire against smooth communication. Warning: There are some generalities about men and women included in this article. I want to say up front that, as a longtime relationship coach, I’ve met many people w
053: Many Fish in the Sea
I often speak to a member of a couple and inside their unhappiness is the feeling of fear. "What if I never find someone else? What if this is the best I can do" - We live in a world of scarcity. It is part of the fabric of our society that there are ...
052: The Foundation of Self-Love
I am looking at my partner's face, touching her skin, and feeling deeper love with her than I ever thought possible. It feels like 'Disney Love', the kind that you only see in the movies. My cynical mind is perplexed. How is this possible? -
FB: ‘Disney Love’
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With Together.Guide and Erik Newton
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051: One Unit of Truth
I posted this recently: >> I suggested a game for more intimacy. >> Client responds: “I feel overwhelmed in my life already” >> Me: “No… you feel overwhelmed by the fear in your life” >> Client: “……..”
050: #TruthMoment
One trip a few months ago, I was looking at my phone and saw the name of a FB crush. We were friends, connected, I tended to LIKE her posts, and check out her profile pics. I realized that in this lifetime,
Writing: HRC/DT vs. Masculine/Feminine
The facts: I have already voted for Secretary Clinton and abhor Donald Trump as a politician and a man. My CV: 17.5 years in self-development. I co-founded OneTaste in 2004, was a lead teacher and coach during my tenure of 10 years, co-founded its Men’s
048: The Patriarchy with Heather Higgins
In October 2016, I went to the Integral Center in Boulder to speak at Relationship Leader Summit. I had the pleasure of talking besides 30 or so speakers on various topics around relationship, communication and authenticity.
049: The Lure of Freedom
I've heard the word 'FREEDOM' my entire life. For some, it is the ultimate goal to be FREE. Free of our anger, fear, constraints, money troubles, loneliness, etc etc. I had the same thought and have spent my life in pursuit of it. - However,