Welcome to Tuff Love: A Group coaching call with me, Rob Kandell, your favorite part football-coach, part-drill sergeant and part-loving dad. It is week four, recorded live here in Venice, California.

This week’s rant is about this relatively new term of “GasLighting”. I’ve heard of this concept for a few years but recently have been looking deeper at it. Here’s how the Urban Dictonary defines it:

“A form of intimidation or psychological abuse, sometimes called Ambient Abuse where false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory, perception and quite often, their sanity. “

Recently, I’ve seen some awful examples of Gas-lighting on my facebook group, the New masculine community, and its pisses me off. Today, we discuss it and its detrimental effects.

The question of the week is a personal one. Someone asks me “What is my personal fear around sex and sexual performance.” I open my heart and share my answer. Stay tuned for my answer.

Next I bring Misha online and she talks about her relationship to her boundaries with people in her life.

So sit back for a wild call. If this call turns you on and you want to give us a little lovin’… send me donation for Paypal at paypal@kandellconsulting.com Just do it! We love when we get sent a little love!