How to Survive a Toxic Boss: Tara’s Story of Strategic Career Moves

In this throwback episode, Felicia shares the true story of Tara — an ambitious Black woman navigating a toxic boss, an insecure manager, and a messy workplace power structure. Through sharp strategy and smart relationship-building, Tara not only survives her bad manager but makes bold career moves that protect her peace and position her for long-term success.

If you’ve ever had to deal with a difficult boss or manage up in a toxic work culture, this episode is for you.

• How to recognize the signs of an insecure, micromanaging boss
  This episode shows how micromanagers operate from fear — and how to spot the red flags early.
• Why overworking won’t fix a toxic boss — but strategy can
  Learn why trying to “prove yourself” to a bad manager usually backfires, and what to do instead.
• How to build workplace relationships that protect your career
  Tara’s success came from managing up and cultivating allies beyond her direct manager — especially with senior leaders.
• How to manage office politics without losing your peace
  Felicia breaks down how Tara stayed emotionally grounded while navigating sabotage, bias, and backchannel conversations.
• Why visibility with executive leadership beats loyalty to a bad manager
  In a messy org chart or during a restructure, being seen by power players is key to survival.