In this episode of Things That Matter, host Martie McNabb sits down with nurse, grief facilitator, and author Wy Woods Harris for a deeply meaningful conversation about love, loss, and legacy. The two first connected during the early days of the pandemic through Let’s Reimagine, a space dedicated to open conversations around grief, death, and healing—making this reunion especially powerful. Wy shares the story of one of the most meaningful objects in her life: her late husband’s urn, adorned with butterflies chosen together as a symbol of transformation and hope. Their conversation explores the importance of having honest, proactive discussions about end-of-life wishes, cremation options, and what happens to our most sacred belongings—especially in blended families. Wy offers practical wisdom drawn from both her professional experience and personal loss, emphasizing the relief and clarity that written instructions can provide loved ones during times of grief. The episode also touches on storytelling as a form of legacy, including Wy’s published books and collaborative writing projects that preserve the voices and memories of those she loves. Together, Martie and Wy reflect on how stories—whether shared through objects, words, or rituals—allow us to keep people close even after they are gone. This conversation is a heartfelt reminder to treasure the people we love, put our wishes in writing, and continue telling the stories behind the things that matter most. Are you looking to build deeper connections, community & legacy with your employees, volunteers, donors, community, alumni, family, friends, residents, team or event participants? Hire me to host a unique story-sharing gathering, playshop, exhibition or retreat. Email me at martie at showandtales dot com Have a story of a special item you’d love to share? Reach out to Martie McNabb at info at showandtales dot com and be part of a future episode with the Subject line: Podcast Guest✨ If you were asked "What Things would tell your life story?" What Things would you choose? Look around your home, office & even on yourself .... what Things do you surround yourself with & what stories would they tell? Grab my My Life in 30 Things playsheet to list your Things that matter here: https://www.showandtales.com/30-thing... Watch here:  Or Listen here: